“I’ll Do It Later” Is Wrecking Your Growth

I’ll Do It Later…

It sounds harmless. Even responsible.

Like we’re not giving up, we’re just waiting for the “right time.”

But most of the time, “later” turns into never.

It’s how we quietly say no to the things we actually need. The habits. The relationships. The internal work. The tough conversations. The purpose we were made to live out.

So why do we keep waiting?

Is it because we’re tired? Overwhelmed? Distracted? Lazy?

There’s more going on than we realize.

The Psychology of Delay

Procrastination isn’t about laziness.

It’s often about emotional avoidance.

A 2025 study found that people who struggle to process their emotions—especially when things feel uncertain or uncomfortable—are far more likely to delay. Saying “I’ll do it later” becomes a way to escape tension, not just a scheduling issue.

The brain plays a role too.

Your limbic system wants relief now. It craves comfort. Meanwhile, your prefrontal cortex—the part responsible for long-term planning—gets drowned out. So instead of leaning into what matters, we put it off in favor of ease.

We tell ourselves we’ll get to it soon.

But we rarely do.

You Might Have Values. But Do You Have a Plan?

A lot of people can tell you what they believe in.

They have values, words they stand by.

But if you looked at their habits, routines, or daily decisions… would those values show up?

It’s not enough to say who you want to be.

You need a path that actually takes you there.

When we delay action, we widen the gap between who we are and who we say we want to become.

We don’t need more motivational speeches.

We need a better rhythm.

What We’re Seeing Inside Growdie

Inside Growdie, we’ve seen a handful of members complete growth activities nearly every day since the year started. Not because they’re chasing perfection, but because they’ve built a rhythm.

Here’s what their data reveals:

  • Habits build on each other

It started with a couple of actions, like reflecting or writing down wins. But over time, more habits followed. Prioritizing the day. Checking in at night. One habit made space for another.

  • Momentum fuels identity

After 20+ straight days of growth, the mindset shifts. People stop saying “I’m trying” and start saying “This is who I am.” They stop performing and start becoming.

  • Motivation shifts from external to internal

What once felt like a task becomes personal. The app doesn’t just track behavior, it gives people a mirror to see their growth. That changes how they show up.

  • Confidence grows with consistency

When people follow through daily, their self-talk changes. Instead of “I hope I can,” it becomes “I’m someone who does.”

The power isn’t in the streak. It’s in the mindset shift.

Later doesn’t build trust.

Later doesn’t shape character.

Later doesn’t help you follow through when it counts.

Growth happens when you commit—quietly, repeatedly, and on purpose.

Legacy Isn’t Built on “Someday”

The work that builds your future doesn’t always feel important in the moment.

Nobody’s clapping when you choose reflection over scrolling.

There’s no standing ovation for journaling or prioritizing your day.

But these small choices stack.

They become the foundation of who you are. And eventually, what you’re known for.

So how long will you keep putting off your purpose?

Who cares if it’s not flashy?

Who cares if no one sees it?

You’re building something bigger than attention.

You’re building a life of alignment.

A legacy rooted in consistency, not applause.

So my challenge to you is…DO IT NOW.

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